Countdown to Christmas

Image via WikipediaIt seems like the day after Thanksgiving is the "official" start of the Christmas/holiday season, no? Although this year I noticed more music, lights and push towards the holidays well before turkey day, more than ever before.

But here we are, counting down the days. I have done some initial shopping (unusual for me, but as I mentioned earlier, we have the ultimate Christmas box 'o gifts for dad!) and I've even bought one thing for the boy.  (And if you are wondering, we do call him "the boy" in real life, not just blog life). 

So what's your plan? Are you a list maker? Last minute "just see what happens" kind of gal/guy? Or so involved  with regular life that you can't even think of it? 

I am....all three.  I am the ultimate list maker: I make a list for vacation travel packing. I make lists for dinners, shopping, to do lists, household chores (that hasn't worked out so well), so lists work for me.  If lists work for you, check out Organized Christmas for some great ideas to get going on your list making.

Last minute: I used to sweat the small stuff, a lot. My wonderful easy going husband has show me the light of waiting, not worrying, and it all works out. And honestly, it usually does.  Forget someone on your list? They'll forgive you.  Not much in the bank? No biggie: they'll understand.   Just can't find the perfect gift idea?  Be the perfect friend and take them out for a coffee, or offer to watch their kids so they can get a few minutes break.  Be creative. 

And if you're still involved/overwhelmed with "usual" life?  So be it.  It's a season for peace and new life, not stress and credit card bills.  Figure out the ten most important things that have to happen for your perfect holiday; then cut it down by six or so, and maybe even more, and focus on the most important parts of your holiday; leave the rest behind.  Remember in a year or two or three, it will all be forgotten, except the precious moments, that is time, you spend in the floor with your child, or holding the hand of an elderly person that is alone.  Those are the things that will be remembered. 

So ready, set, and GO! But go in peace.

And let's make a pact: No sweating the unimportant stuff.